What To Do When Someone Dies

Losing a loved one is overwhelming, and the number of tasks to handle afterward can feel daunting. This checklist walks you through the essential steps, organized by timing so you can focus on what matters right now.

You do not need to do everything at once. Take things step by step. Delegate where you can.

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These are the first steps to take in the first 24 to 72 hours. Focus on confirming the death, notifying the right people, and taking care of immediate needs.

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Common questions

Do I have to use the funeral home the hospital recommends?
No. You are free to choose any funeral home or cremation provider. Funeral homes are required by law to give you a price list if you ask, and comparing more than one is allowed.
How many death certificates should I order?
Order at least 10 to 20 certified copies. Banks, insurers, employers, and government offices each typically want an original. Ordering more later is slower and costs more.
Who tells Social Security about the death?
A funeral home will often report the death to the Social Security Administration for you. It is still worth confirming. You can call them directly at 1-800-772-1213.
Is probate always necessary?
Not always. Whether probate is required depends on the types of assets and your state's rules. A short call to a probate attorney can usually tell you quickly.